I am officially "in" the divorce process.

We agreed to not use lawyers, and "just get the divorce ourselves" which is really so much easier said than done.

It's a little crazy making, the volume of things to do, on top of the sometimes-crushing feelings of tending to the death of a dream, but I am just going through it all one thing at a time.

So, when I said a little while ago that I filed for divorce, I only did the first step at the courthouse. In 6-8 weeks we have to go back together for the next steps. But by fall we should be fully divorced.

Anyway.....

Sifting through the wreckage of my marriage has taught me a lot about my least helpful patterns and perspectives, when it comes to relationships.

These big unwelcome life events can give us a new glimpse into our unconscious stuff, which is maddening and fascinating.

It's like they create a crack in the facade that we can kind of peer through.

So as I look at all of the things I am learning this question came to me:

SO HOW DO MY UNHELPFUL PATTERNS AND PERSPECTIVES IMPACT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DREAM IN WAYS I DO NOT SEE?

It feels like such a big expansive question, and I am REALLY excited about sitting with it.

 

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