When you are making a plan to MAKE YOUR DREAM HAPPEN it's common to come across something that feels really BLEGH.
Like UGH I don't want to .
It's important that you don't OBEY that feeling.
It's also important that you don't try to steamroll that feeling and force yourself to do the thing you don't want to do. Or stuff the feeling down. Or pretend it's not there.
To get to the ALCHEMY of Creative Dream Alchemy, the place where the magic happens... you have to BE WITH whatever is actually there.
So. You have to BE WITH the BLEGH UGH I don't want to.
And validate it! It IS a valid feeling.
Can you do that? Put your hands on your heart and say "Oh yeah. BLEGH!!!! UGH!!! I don't want to! It sucks that I have to do things I don't want to do if I want to get to where I want to be!!!!!"
And then DO THE UN-STICKING STATION PROCESS with the BLEGH. Take your time with it. Accept that this is the work right now. Detangling this mess of a BLEGH is the work that best serves you and your dreams right now.
The BLEGH is an invitation to healing, transformation and miracles.
Let's treat it as such! The Un-Sticking Station process will help you find the healing, transformation and miracle that is waiting for you here.
Because when you DON'T acknowledge, validate, feel, process and work with the BLEGH, then your only options are to force yourself to do things you don't want to do or abandon your dream entirely.
And you deserve better than that.
You deserve the healing, transformation and miracles that the BLEGH is trying to offer you.
We want to stay CURIOUS and OPEN in this work and not go into it assuming we know what's going to happen...
But I will tell you that what is most likely to happen is:
- you'll discover that there actually IS a way to make a realistic and do-able plan that doesn't include the BLEGH thing, like there is a completely different way to approach this
- you'll find a way to baby-step it so it's not so awful
- you'll re-connect with your LOVE and PASSION and ENTHUSIASM for your dream and the blegh will feel much smaller
Many years ago I had that BLEGH about paying taxes as self employed person.
For some reason, I thought it would be a total nightmare. At this point I can't even say why I thought it would be so awful but it was a big part in why I didn't want to turn this work into a business (I was doing it for several years "on the side" while working in a day job).
And I never really confronted that BLEGH. (If I had, I would have figured some stuff out much faster) But my love, passion and enthusiasm for my dream grew, and the way I was doing this work grew to the point where it made sense to figure out how to quit my job and really do this...
And then it turned out the taxes were no big deal.
Like - I just put some money aside each month and when it's time to pay taxes I send that money over. It's absolutely not a problem and yet for some time it was the whole reason why I didn't want to figure out how to really HAVE my DREAM.
And the BLEGH had nothing to do with taxes. Or money. The BLEGH is rarely really about what it says it's about.
Creative Dreaming is SO vulnerable.
Creative Dreaming is such a deep and profound invitation to healing and growth, to creativity and soul.
There are so many layers and so many things happening.
I've been wrestling with some BLEGHs about my plans for 2026.
All these things I DO NOT WANT TO DO and yet I very much want the results of having done those tasks.
And I've been sitting in all of the discomfort of that.
And then... I found the more I VALIDATED my BLEGHS instead of judging them and wishing I felt more motivated.... well I started to see how they ARE valid.
I started to see how I'm not "being a spoiled brat" in wanting to have the results without making the effort.
I started to see how much I was judging myself for feeling like a spoiled brat about it!!
I started to see... omg yes it's true! There ARE ways to get what I want WITHOUT doing all this shit I don't want to do.
I can't even begin to explain how many layers of "capitalist work ethic" are hiding out in this BLEGH and my reaction to the BLEGH.
But I do feel like simply validating my feelings and validating my wish to NOT do the things I don't want to do... I am creating a whole new way to do it.
Creative Dreaming means seeing beyond what we've seen before. Doing things in ways we have no context for. It's sooo trippy and amazing.
Whatever it is you think you have to do to get what you want, if you don't want to do it - I promise you there is another way.
And you can create that other way if you stay in the process and keep going deeper into all of the feelings that come up along the way.
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