PLANNING is a place where a lot of inner stuff can get triggered.

Most dreams need plans. Most plans need to be revised over time. There is a lot of planning and re-planning involved in creative dreaming.

Because our dream is our soul calling us towards our true self, this is all going to be "next level stuff" so we don't start out already knowing HOW.

We're not SUPPOSED TO KNOW HOW!

AND it's just so unsettling to not know how.

So, the planning can be tricky.

Every new moon we do the New Moon Intention Setting Ritual to make space for your soul to show you your path for the next month. We make space to reflect on how that went last month, learn from our process, and apply our learning to how we approach the next month. This can help you make considerable progress over time.

Because my dreams include my business, the Creative Dream Incubator, I also plan out every month more from the Outer Work perspective.

AND I let the New Moon Intention Setting and the Monthly Planning impact each other, they are not separate, just two different ways of supporting myself in doing the things I want to do.

So, this week I am going over April's plan, finishing up what I can, and making May's plan.

As I do this I notice...

A part of me is judging me for not having an ambitious enough plan for April and then also not doing everything on my un-ambitious plan.

* I'm going to put aside my feelings about AMBITION and all the ways it's tied to the dreams that capitalism tries to sell us and how the older I get, the less ambitious I am, and I am very happy about this.

This shame feels heavy and thick in my chest. Clinging to my chest but also dripping down into my belly.

Hey shame, since you’ve shown up in this way I assume you want to talk?

No I don’t want to talk, I want to just be here, shaming you in the background.

Why in the background?

So that I can keep doing this for a long time. I work best in the background.

Is it because, with attention and awareness, you shape shift?

Yes.

And you don’t want to shape shift right now?

No.

Why not?

I want to make you feel bad for what you did.

Why?

So that you never do it again.

Can you be more specific about what you want me to never do again?

Be too unambitious in your goal setting and then fail to meet those too-small goals.

And why are you so upset that I did this?

Because you are holding yourself back, things could be going better for you if you got your shit together.

Having my shit together means setting ambitious goals and then meeting them every time?

Yes.

Do you see the health struggles I’ve had this last month, and even going back to this whole year?

Ummmmrhgh. Ummmm. That makes me feel uncomfortable.

How come?

I don’t want to know about that.

Fair enough, but my health has a HUGE impact on my productivity, you understand that right?

I do! That’s why I don’t want to know. It’s so stressful.

OH. Yeah. I hear that. It’s very stressful.

Good, we agree about something.

We do! But I think you may not understand that… the health issues are here. This is reality. And I am doing what I am within reality. And you, when you want to shame me for these things, are making it so much harder. Like - I just can’t operate the way I do when I DON’T have health issues, when I DO have them. Do you see that?

Oh! I wasn’t seeing that. I think I see it now. Do you mean you wish you were more ambitious and productive?

I think ambitious is something we need to table for now. I do wish I was more productive, I love all of my ideas and want to be acting on them faster but I really honestly absolutely can’t. I am actually trying to look at ways to change my routines and systems and structure and figure out how to do the things I want to do, but I need SUPPORT. Not shaming! Shaming makes everything worse! Don’t you see that?????

Shaming is the only tool I have.

That can’t be true.

Can’t it?

Shame is not a tool. And if you want to talk about being productive then you need to look at what happens when you shame me. It’s not ONCE made me more productive.

No, I guess it usually makes you sad and you move even slower.

Right.

My health is so upsetting to me. And I get so much judgement from the outside world about not being able to keep up. I don’t need it from inside me too!!!!!

Wow, you’re right.

Shame, you really don’t do anything except slow me down and make me feel worse. If you want to help me be more productive then let’s look for SUPPORTIVE and KIND and HELPFUL ways to do that.

I want to do that. I don’t know how. But I want to learn.

That's the kind of work we do in the Un-Sticking Station.

It's natural to have all sorts of uncomfortable emotional reactions to planning and figuring out how to take steps towards our dreams.

Unfortunately, if you don't have a plan for how to face those feelings - you end up putting your dreams aside because that seems like the only way to feel better.

So, membership members - keep the Un-Sticking Station in mind!

And remember that taking the time to sit with these feelings when they come up is actually a SHORTCUT.

 

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Get your next Dream Book lesson or get a weekly journaling + alchemy kit.

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This image is from the guided journal in the Dream Lab but it captures the feeling of my miracle meditation today.

Showing up consistently to practice creative dreaming is HARD sometimes.

It just is. I am feeling that this morning.

I am doing Project Miracle. I want to do all 30 days of it, no matter how many days it takes me, you know?

It took a LOT of convincing to get me to show up this morning.

I'd love to share that by the time I got into it, the meditation was great and I got a new idea for what to do next and I feel fantastic...

But the meditation was a MESS.

I couldn't get into it.

Each time I could finally BEGIN to do the thing I was supposed to do, my voice came back with the next instruction and I couldn't jump ahead. It felt so chaotic and rushed.

The same meditation that felt peaceful and encouraging last week!

The further I went in the meditation the more aggravated I became.

I was ESPECIALLY aggravated when I got to the part about not judging your process and it's ok if it doesn't feel good.

I got to the end of the meditation feeling disconnected from my miracle and annoyed with myself.

I wrote about my experience in my journal.

I wrote out all the things that annoyed me....

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Then I saw how they are connected.

I saw the message.

I saw how last week my Miracle has been saying... slow down with the Outer Work, go deeper into Dream Work. Be more deeply rooted.

I saw how... I didn't take any of that advice in the last 3 days. I was fully intending to focus on that this week, but so far I've just had a lot going on so I kept going full speed ahead.

My miracle is saying SLOW THE FUCK DOWN. Don't wait for an opportunity to slow down - DO THIS. NOW.

And then I felt so grateful for aggravating and chaotic meditation.

Because I see so clearly now where I am choosing things that move me away from what I really want.

I see how it didn't FEEL like a choice to keep moving full speed ahead... but it WAS A choice.

As chaotic as the meditation was for me this morning, it did give me enough space to see that from a different perspective. I saw all these ways I could have done my weekend differently to make more space for what I needed.

Which makes me feel hopeful about this week.

 

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Yesterday I was SO STUCK trying to start Project Miracle.

Today I started it and was AMAZING. I spent almost an hour journaling about my miracle this morning.

I felt peaceful, grounded, clear, and completely ready to CALL THIS THING IN.

Also there is this deep whole body knowing that…. I can do this and NOT get overwhelmed in the process. Which is not something I’ve experienced in a while! Already a little miracle!

I just want to remind you… some days you’re stuck and some days you’re not. Momentum and progress come when you show up regardless.

Yesterday when I thought about really committing to this thing I want… all hell broke loose inside me.  Suddenly all the reasons why NOW is not the time felt so BIG.

That’s really common and not at all a sign that now is not the time. 

Remember that pursuing your dreams is really about pursuing your most authentic self. It’s about trusting your soul. It’s about healing from the ways this world taught you to doubt yourself and conform to values that are an insult to the preciousness of life.

It’s a big deal.

So sometimes Creative Dreaming is terrifyingly vulnerable.

It just is. 

Some tools for the hard parts:

If you’re doing Project Miracle with me: there are 2 different mini classes for when you’re stuck

If you’re doing Dream Book, there’s this video for when you’re struggling to get into it

There's the video for when you're in resistance

This meditation for when you are too upset for any of this

The classic Un-Sticking Station 

And this video for when you're avoiding the Un-Sticking Station

Alchemy process for overwhelm 

Alchemy process for making your trust in your dream bigger than your fear

And the Creative Dream Alchemy Library of Inner Work Practices if none of those seem quite right.

But if you can't choose - start with this.

 

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Do the Hello Day Energy Clearing + Intention Setting Practice (from Dream Book 2026)

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I am feeling stuck with some stuff so I am bringing out the big guns - I am getting ready to do PROJECT MIRACLE, which is a 30 day meditation + journaling program for calling the shift you need NOW.

(Yes, even now. It works when you are utterly overwhelmed and navigating a quickly changing world. If you can give this 20 minute a day for the next 30 days - you can call in the shift you need.)

Project Miracle is available inside the Creative Dream Incubator Membership but if you're not a member: RIGHT NOW YOU CAN GET PROJECT MIRACLE ON IT'S OWN AND IT'S 50% OFF!*

(Get it here and use the code MIRACLETIME for the discount)

 

 

So I am TRYING to start Project Miracle and not quite getting there.

I know Project Miracle WORKS.

That's why I feel so vulnerable and weird about it which is why I am having so much trouble starting.

Am I really ready for this?

Like, REALLY?

A miracle is a shift in perspective.

A shift in perspective that helps you see yourself and your life in a new way, that changes how you feel, that changes what seems possible for you… which changes how you ACT. Which can change ANYTHING.

Am I ready to see myself differently? Am I ready for next-level awareness of where I have been (unnecessarily?!) holding myself back?

Am I really really to BE my "next level" self?

I know from experience this means letting go of whichever excuses and hiding places are worn out and not a fit for my next-level self. I know how vulnerably and scary that work can be.

And I that I can get a lot of comfort out of hiding out in my comfort zone! And that don't we all need all the comfort right now?

And I don't tend to just... come to a place where I magically feel ready to change. There is usually a tug-of-war between my resistance and my wisest self.

I am just a few weeks away from my 52nd birthday.

I would like, at this age, to be MATURE enough to not have these tug-o-wars.

I can hear one of my good friends, who has 20 years on me, laughing about that. I know she's still got her share of tug-o-wars going on.

Because DANCING WITH OUR RESISTANCE is actually a part of the creative process.

And you know what? Project Miracle includes TWO MINI CLASSES specifically about getting stuck like this.

There's one for if you sign up and then have trouble getting started.

There's one for it you start the program, and then get stuck somewhere.

So why am I not going to that video about having a hard time getting started?

I'm sitting with that question. And that's enough for today.

There is SO MUICH MAGIC that comes from sitting with our resistance instead of avoiding it.

So I am leaning into that magic and not pressuring myself to do anything in particular with it today. Just kind of... letting it settle.

I'll be back tomorrow and see where it's at then.

If you're in the membership and want to try Project Miracle with me - start here.

If you're not a member: RIGHT NOW YOU CAN GET PROJECT MIRACLE ON IT'S OWN FOR 50% OFF!* Get it here and use the code MIRACLETIME for the discount.

* The regular price for the 30 day Project Miracle program is $33 so it’s now on sale for $16.50. There are two other options -  you can get 90 days access to Project Miracle for $99 or 90 days access with a private session with me for $250. Those options are not 50% off, but you can apply the $16.50 discount to them during this sale.

Creative Dream Incubator Coaching Membership members:

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Do the Hello Day Energy Clearing + Intention Setting Practice (from Dream Book 2026)

Get your next Dream Book lesson or get a weekly journaling + alchemy kit.

Go the Library of Creative Dream Alchemy to find a practice that fits for where you are or use the Dream Lab if you're not sure where to start.

Check out the calendar of upcoming calls. Make a plan to join us live or catch a replay.

If you're not a member - find out more + join us here!

Sunday I mentioned escape fantasies vs dreams which sparkled some interesting comments in the forum in the membership and I’ve been thinking a lot about…

What makes a dream seem so impossible that we call it a fantasy?

What helps us CLAIM our dreams, and say - yes this will be hard but I deserve it and in fact I am CAPABLE of creating this?

Of course, given the state of the world, it's easy to give up on our dreams right now.

But I know that listening to our dreams, which is a way of listening to our souls, our creativity and our values about how to live our lives, is actually the ONLY way we can create a better future.

There are lots of ways to define “dreams” and “escape fantasies”

My definition is that your dream is your soul showing you your path in life. It’s showing you who you really are and what you are really capable of.

Your dream is your own soul shouting THIS IS FOR YOU!!!! That's why dreams feel so special and have that pull to them. It's a SOUL CALLING.

An escape fantasy… that is usually an ACCURATE way of seeing something in your life that isn’t working for you.

Your desire to escape is completely legitimate!

I think an escape fantasy is usually tied in with a dream and maybe we are invalidating our dreams and say “Oh it’s just a fantasy” or maybe we are in a hard place and not feeling up for the incredible courage it takes to face the thing in your life that you want to change, and work on a realistic plan for making those changes.

I don’t think it ever matters if it’s “just” an escape fantasy.

If you want a thing, that’s valid.

If a thing keeps calling you…. that’s a calling.

It's easy for this to feel sooooo complicated and journaling it out can help!

Journaling prompts for when you feel like your dream is “just” an escape fantasy and not something to take seriously:

What are the feelings that brings up? Do these feelings need some tending to? (Members: use the Un-Sticking Station practice)

WHY does it feel like an escape fantasy and not a dream?  Which part of you is labeling it like this?

Get specific - is it truly for sure completely impossible? If some parts are possible and some parts are impossible, make a clear list of both.

IF it IS impossible: WHY do you want it? How would having it make you feel? What will change in your life if you had it?  Give these questions lots of space, and then look through your answers for clues for things you CAN bring into your life. Are there any dreams there?

If it is NOT actually impossible: congratulations! You have a creative DREAM. All dreams come with obstacles and hard parts, and you’re going to work through them as long as you don’t give up. Use Dream Book to sort through the Dream Work, Inner Work and Outer Work that this dream needs - work through it slowly and really get GROUNDED with it.

Creative Dream Incubator Coaching Membership members:

Come to the forum to share your thoughts or start a conversation about whatever you're working with.

Do the Hello Day Energy Clearing + Intention Setting Practice (from Dream Book 2026)

Get your next Dream Book lesson or get a weekly journaling + alchemy kit.

Go the Library of Creative Dream Alchemy to find a practice that fits for where you are or use the Dream Lab if you're not sure where to start.

Check out the calendar of upcoming calls. Make a plan to join us live or catch a replay.

If you're not a member - find out more + join us here!

I have been thinking about INTENTION and how important it is right now. I think we have to be intentional about how we move through these times or else we’re going to drown in everything that is happening.

I really feel how important that is... but I am struggling to show up in any kind of intentional way today.

I am trying to do the Hello Day energy clearing + intention setting meditation.

I started it three times. There is SO MUCH distracting me and I just couldn't get into it.

And even if all I did today was try three times and not actually get to the meditation in the way I wanted - that counts as a success because I am SHOWING UP in the way that this particular day allows.

To establish a successful Creative Dream Alchemy practice, successful as in it holds space for you to do that things you want to do and to figure out all the things you need to figure out to do the things you want to do, we have to be really gentle and easy about what a "successful step" entails. This encourages you to shop up more often and take more steps.

Not every step can be a "winner" you know?

But today, on my fourth try, I did the meditation all the way through and had this vision....

I was creating a bubble of warm yellow light. It started small but I grew it big enough to sit inside it. It was a space of HEALING CREATIVITY + POSSIBILITY and all around it was storms.

It was a haven from the storm.

That's what our creative dream practices are right now.

A place where we hold on to knowing that a better world is possible. A place where we connect with the parts of us who believe in a better future for everyone.

This is such important work. And it's such HARD work. We are not always going to get it right.

These are the times when artists (and healers!) GET TO WORK.

And these are the times when it's the hardest to get to work.

It's on us to hold both of those truths. And to create space for ourselves to be with both.

I made the Hello Day energy clearing + intention setting meditation to help with exactly that.

There is SO MUCH mindset stuff in there for supporting that work.

But the right tools make the work possible, they don't necessarily make it easy.

I'm stuck today.

And I am so frustrated that I am stuck because I was having such a good week and was excited about the progress I was making and today I was looking forward to checking off a lot of to do items from my list.

And now here I am. My brain feels like fuzz and I have wasted most of the morning distracting myself in every way possible to avoid my next steps.

So I am finally going into the Un-Sticking Station to really BE WITH this.

What’s up stuck?

Stuck is a mountain in my chest. I get closer to it and there’s a meadow of wildflowers. It’s not a menacing place to be, but that mountain feels like A LOT to climb.

Hmmmm.

What would it look like to STAY IN THE MEADOW today and not try to climb the mountain? Could it be that the mountain is a way of saying… these tasks ARE too much for you today. You DID do a lot this week, and you need to take it easier today.

I feel like the meadow is inviting me to lay down.

INTENTIONAL rest and slowing down is not the same as being distracted and not doing the things you meant to do.

INTENTIONAL rest can fuel the next steps.

I look at the mountain. It just feels so un-moveable. And I am too tired to climb it.

It feels true that INTENTIONAL REST is my next step.

But a part of me feels sooooo uncomfortable with this, because I AM NOT GETTING ENOUGH DONE.

But the mountain kind of… asserts its presence when I think that. It’s like I AM A FREAKING MOUNTAIN, CAN’T YOU SEE? YOU KNOW YOU DON’T HAVE THE ENERGY TO CLIMB ME TODAY.

I get out my list of things I am working on and had hoped to do this week.

I feel so behind, like I am drowning in my dreams and I am judging that for feeling really dramatic about that and I am encouraging myself to express my feelings as fully as possible.

I feel like the REAL WORK today is to forgive myself for not being able to do what I wanted/planned to do.

And I feel resentful about that.

And I know… this is what it means to engage with your dreams in an ALCHEMICAL and NON LINEAR way.

The alchemy doesn’t come from just… checking everything off of your list every week.

The alchemy comes when you make space for what is actually happening.

And this is what is actually happening for me today.

So I am going to accept… I can’t do the Outer Work tasks I wanted to finish today.

I CAN take my journal to bed, get cozy, and meet with the souls of my projects and do some brainstorming about HOW to hold all of the things I want to be doing in a way that doesn't overwhelm me.

Resources that help with this:

• Dream Plan Kit
• Dream Lab (you can meet with the soul of your projects there, instead of the soul of your dream)
• Creative Genius Planning Sessions
• Structure Habits Routines

After that I went and made lunch and let this all simmer a bit.

And now I feel really good about this plan.

I have been working through the Structure Habits Routines class, and one of the things on my list for this week, that I didn't get to, was to finish it.

I know I need different ways of holding all the things I want to do. WITHOUT pressure to get things done, but able to honour deadlines where appropriate.

I think it's really about acknowledging that all the stress in the world impacts us more than we know. Plus the health stuff I have going on that I am always working around.

Plus I have been doing this work for over 15 years... the structures, routines and habits I started to create when I was 37 aren't the ones that are going to work for me 2 weeks away from my 52nd birthday.

So, a lot is shifting and I could give myself some grace.

I am really appreciating the visual of resting in the meadow of wildflowers and the mountain is right there and I KNOW I CAN CLIMB IT, but just not today.

Creative Dream Incubator Coaching Membership members:

Come to the forum to share your thoughts or start a conversation about whatever you're working with.

Do the Hello Day Energy Clearing + Intention Setting Practice (from Dream Book 2026)

Get your next Dream Book lesson or get a weekly journaling + alchemy kit.

Go the Library of Creative Dream Alchemy to find a practice that fits for where you are or use the Dream Lab if you're not sure where to start.

Check out the calendar of upcoming calls. Make a plan to join us live or catch a replay.

If you're not a member - find out more + join us here!